Getting married is not just about uniting two people. It is also about uniting your financial life. Money in marriage and how to manage it often taps into emotions and personal values. The financial decisions that you make together now can have a lasting impact on your future. That is why open honest discussions, clear communications, and careful planning is critical as you embark on this next stage of your life journey.
Discuss your financial goals
The first step in mapping out your financial future together is to discuss your financial goals. Each of you should start by making a list of your short-term goals (e.g., paying off wedding debt, new car, vacation) and long-term goals (e.g., having children, buying a bigger home, retirement). Then, work together to determine which goals are most important to you as a couple. Once you’ve identified the goals that are a priority, you can focus your activities on achieving them.
Prepare a budget
Next, you should prepare a budget that lists all of your income and expenses over a certain time period (e.g., monthly, annually).
Begin by listing your sources of income (e.g., salaries and wages, interest, dividends). Then, list your expenses (it may be helpful to review several months of entries in your checkbook and credit card bills). Add them up and compare the two totals. Hopefully, you get a positive number, meaning that you spend less than you earn. If not, review your expenses and see where you can cut down on your spending.
You can designate one spouse to be in charge of managing the budget, or you can take turns keeping records and paying the bills. If you and your spouse are going to be handle this together, make sure that you develop a record-keeping system that both of you understand. And remember to keep your records in a joint filing system so that both of you can easily locate important documents.
Bank accounts — separate or joint?
At some point, you and your spouse will have to decide whether to combine your bank accounts or keep them separate.
Maintaining a joint account does have advantages, such as easier record keeping and lower maintenance fees. However, it’s sometimes more difficult to keep track of how much money is in a joint account when two individuals have access to it. Of course, you could avoid this problem by making sure that you tell each other every time you write a check or withdraw funds from the account. Or, you could decide to maintain separate accounts.
Handling existing credit cards
Adding your name to your spouse’s credit card accounts should be given careful consideration. When you and your spouse have joint credit, both of you will become responsible for 100 percent of the credit card debt. In addition, if one of you has poor credit, it will negatively impact the credit rating of the other.
If you or your spouse does not qualify for a card because of poor credit, and you are willing to give your spouse account privileges anyway, you can make your spouse an authorized user of your credit card. An authorized user is not a joint cardholder and is therefore not liable for any amounts charged to the account. Also, the account activity won’t show up on the authorized user’s credit record. But remember, you remain responsible for the account.
Protecting each other and your things
If you and your spouse have separate health insurance coverage, you’ll want to do a cost/benefit analysis of each plan to see if you should continue to keep your health coverage separate. For example, if your spouse’s health plan has a higher deductible and/or co-payments or fewer benefits than those offered by your plan, he or she may want to join your health plan instead. You’ll also want to compare the rate for one family plan against the cost of two single plans.
It’s a good idea to examine your auto insurance coverage, too. If you and your spouse own separate cars, you may have different auto insurance carriers. Consider pooling your auto insurance policies with one company; many insurance companies will give you a discount if you insure more than one car with them. If one of you has a poor driving record, however, make sure that changing companies won’t mean paying a higher premium.
Start planning for your retirement
If both you and your spouse participate in an employer-sponsored retirement plan, you should be aware of each plan’s characteristics. Review each plan together carefully and determine which plan provides the best benefits. If you can afford it, you should each participate to the maximum in your own plan. If your current cash flow is limited, you can make one plan the focus of your retirement strategy. Here are some helpful tips:
- If both plans match contributions, determine which plan offers the best match and take full advantage of it
- Compare the vesting schedules for the employer’s matching contributions
- Compare the investment options offered by each plan–the more options you have, the more likely you are to find an investment mix that suits your needs
- Find out whether the plans offer loans–if you plan to use any of your contributions for certain expenses (e.g., your children’s college education, a down payment on a house), you may want to participate in the plan that has a loan provision
Avoid fighting over money
Money-related issues are frequently cited as a reason people get divorced. We want you to live happily ever after, so keep the lines of communication open and honest and address any financial issues that come up right away.
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